"This party atmosphere is the everyday norm. Their parties, in fact, cannot do much to improve on the customary high level of fun".
from: Jean Liedloff, The Continuum Concept
I love the days when my dh comes home and we do a little dance, just for fun. We put on music on youtube, one of us is holding dd, and we dance. She loves it so much, and so do we!
I also love having fun. Last night my sister came to visit, and we often laugh a lot. I believe this is so healthy for all of us. In these moments I don't even think about if it was a "good" CC parenting day or not - I'm just having fun, and we're going with the flow of joy and laughter.